Are You Angry Enough To Read This ?

A heartfelt piece , describing the emotional tsunamis of a person whose waves of love keeps hitting the rocks , and never reaches the shore .

Words engage in mental karate to describe the state of mind of a person whose care goes unnoticed . When this happens repeatedly, the love for a person wears the dangerous cloak of anger with ego, prestige , self respect , 'need to be in control' attitude as its buttons .  The person who we care gets so emotionally numb sometimes because they may have been triggered by someone else and they end up being stubborn to such an extent they wont allow other people in their life to care for them . Their own experiences of their care not being received make them a victim of circumstance ahead of us , just like how we are now turning into . Beyond a certain threshold we lose the drive to care for that person which in the long run proves very costly for the relationship. Poisonous words get darted towards each other and feelings that were lying deep beneath get ejected out in ugly words at the most imperfect moments. Tensions arise and in the worst scenarios , we end up physically assaulting each other . To love someone beyond all these struggles makes you strong at a whole different level . Caring is not wrong or foolish. To be angry is a temporary state of mind but to care for someone is the country of the heart . You just cant afford to go into that state of mind when you lose the heart's purpose. The love that first triggered you to care for a person , ensure their well being , accept their imperfections should never fade and must constantly emanate from within . Yes , our actions and intentions may not have been well received ,. But  , ask yourself this - Is the context important or the person ?

Is it important to prove that you are right or is the person important . Anger takes over at the speed of light  , while care is just wearing its boots . It is of absolute importance for one to never give in to anger , in the pretext of caring . Caring doesn't mean controlling a person . It doesn't mean you should make them listen to your orders of care . To care about a person means , to accommodate the person wholly with all their tantrums . To accept all their rejections of sympathy though internally they yearn for it so much . It takes a very refined person with a heightened sense of maturity to control their wheels of emotions . These are the people that end up protecting their relationships and silently earn the chaste love of the people in their life . During all these trials , the mountain of emotions massively weighs us down . It is indeed a perfectly understandable thing when our anger roars in fury until it has seen its pound of flesh . Best part about this ? All things living experience a timeout phase. Even a spent lion , attains tranquility when its dear deer is beyond reach . Try to be this lion. When the anger whistle blares next time , wait for it to subside completely before you do anything majorly irreversible.  Some people , especially the ones that are closest to us, are the ones that make us lose our temper the most. It gets to boiling point when they say you don't care about them , or when they end up doing all things good for you but never allow you to do the same to them. It sounds so unfair and uncontrollable when you love a person so much but still the anger to forget all the love for them tempts you crazily. Who doesn't go through all these emotions ? You do . I do. We all do. But we all need each other at the end of the day .

This heartfelt piece is written exclusively to make us all relate with each other , with all the emotions we go through. We are not exclusively punished as we like to think . Life treats us all equally. It pinches us all impartially and kisses us all unabashedly. In the end , it gets better. It always does. Trust the power of time and don't forsake your flashes of love. These tiny sparks only keep the light of your relationship so that you can see each other's face brimming with the glow of love. You make no wrong stops in this amazing journey of yours. Everything happens for a reason and everything is tied with the threads of destiny. If you have been angry enough to have read this , now you are prepared enough to remove that cloak of yours . Whoever it was, that person who your brain once deemed worthy enough to be trusted and loved , is still indeed fit enough to be loved and cared . If you trust your brain good enough that it doesn't make bad people decisions , you should now trust your heart good enough to rekindle the engine to generate the love you have for that person . You have the strength in you , the depth in you and the intelligence . We all do. Take your time. But , take the first step whenever you are ready and resume things the way they were before all the mess happened .   

Life is one glorious mess indeed .